WILL I EVER MARRY? EVANGELISTBEE, WILL I EVER MARRY? (PART 2)

By

EvangelistBee

facebook-evangelistbee

Twitter@evangelistbee

Mail-evangelistbee@gmail.com

This is in continuation of the series on the challenge of late marriage, likely causes and how to avoid it. It also seeks to help those who are already in their latter years in navigating the issues arising. If you missed on the earlier part – please check at http://www.evangelistbee.com/2013/04/will-i-ever-marry-evangelistbee-will-i.html or just search for “Evangelist Bee Will  I Ever Marry Part 1”. Be blessed as you read.

How can I marry a younger man?

6. WRONG FOCUS

"I like him but he is younger, I cant!"

“how can I marry an older Lady?”

Are you  asking me? How can you marry a younger man? Ask me twenty more times! My answer – how can you not? We make so much fuss about nothing until it’s too late. Be practical and reasonable! Stop burying your head in the sand. At Thirty Seven years of age, the chances of getting a single, never married, non-widowed, non–divorced older man to marry is getting smaller! If you find one, he is likely to have a story behind him and will you be ready to deal with it? Most men older than you will likely even marry women who are way younger! Look around you- statistics confirms so.

WILL I EVER MARRY? EVANGELISTBEE, WILL I EVER MARRY? (PART 1)

By

EvangelistBee

facebook-evangelistbee

Twitter@evangelistbee

Mail-evangelistbee@gmail.com

WILL I EVER MARRY?

I had started on this burden over twelve months ago but never concluded it. I pray I do this time and get it posted to encourage someone and warn others. I reconnected with someone again last week who was well into her forties and still single. I was so distressed that because if I add five years to her current age, I discovered that at that age my mum was already a Grand mum! I believe it’s not hopeless if we do what we need to do and trust God for the rest.

The statement, “WILL I EVER MARRY? EVANGELIST BEE, WILL I EVER MARRY” was the conclusion of an email that summarized my week. On a more serious note, I will say this has summarized my month. It was sent to me by a lady who had remained single after 40 years on earth. I had a hectic month at work and in ministry in the last four to six weeks. It culminated in a weekend where I saw over 30% of the population of a prayer meeting respond to an altar call for those who have delay in getting married. 

While praying for them, I could see some of them were really advanced in years. I am serious! My suspicions were confirmed when after one of the sessions one of the women came to me and said she could not come out as she was ashamed! Why? She was well into her mid forties and she felt her own issues were in a different class!